Absolutely going to be careful here, and what I mean by give her space is be even more cognizent of the space I give her than I have been, make sure that any communication is initiated by her and that I do not ask her about how she's doing/feeling from a day to day basis.
I also am not sure that this will be the end of anything so I'm keeping that in the back of my mind as well. I also feel that just becuase that relationship may be ending does not mean we immediately start working on ours. I know she's going to need time to grieve before she can move foward and that doesn't necessarily mean we move forward together. She's got plenty she's going to have to change before we can do that.
I am still planning on continuing my GAL activities and goals and thinking about boundaries and consequences. I honestly can't believe that relationship is over until I see actions/proof that it's over. One text doesn't show that, not even close, but it's potentially a step in the right direction.
Thanks Zephyr!
_____________________ Me:44 W:44 Together 22 Married 21 S 19 D 17, 15, 15. 7 EA/PA suspected 3/30/2016 EA/PA confirmed 4/5/2016 ILYBINILWY 4/5/2016 WW asked for Divorce 5/8/2016 (WW has backtracked)