Thank you Job, you're right. I'm trying to look at things from the positive side but sometimes I fail. My former boss already offered me a position in his new org but he could not offer me the same conditions I have now & with the divorce hanging over my head I need to think twice. I know that money is not so important & I would not hesitate one second if my private situation was different but... He told me he will try in a couple of years again. Even if he won't it's still nice to know that I was appreciated. But I cannot really complain, I'm happy where I am it's just different now that he's gone.
Will try my best regarding the summer vacation! Will let you know how it went. I find it ironic that the longest vacation we ever took we take while separated.
Yes, patience. Not my strongest part but working on it!