None of those questions that have been posed have been answered. this is no reason to stop thinking about them and coming to terms with what the outcomes of those thoughts (Boundaries and Consequences)
if you want help with the thinking, feel free to post your thoughts...it is clear that there are many people here who WANT to help you and look out for you.
Also, when you say give her space...does that mean you are going to continue to work on goals and GAL?
