Or maybe she liked the idea of Facetiming at bedtime better than she likes it in practice.
I think it would make it difficult to really be present where you are, if you are always keeping an eye on the clock.
I live with my kids, and I am not there for every bedtime. And when I travel, I don't talk to them on the phone every day.
I have regrets as a parent, but these facts are not among them.
The expectation is unrealistic.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16
You scream about how S is the most important thing to you, 5 minutes (maximum) can be found. Sorry. It's nothing compared to what she's done in the past. I will not address this again.