Just as I figured would happen, my WAW cancelled our lunch today. She said she was in pain and was going from her dentist to another dentist to get root canal procedure done. This is from a person who has had maybe two cavities her entire life. She also said her car broke down this morning.
I believe she is getting a root canal because she asked if she could put the charge on the Care Credit card. I told her she could do that. I wasn't about to let her be in pain.
I am extremely angry at the moment because she didn't text me until 30 minutes before we were to meet. There was no way she could not know she would not be able to make it in time. Her dentist is at least 45 minutes away from here. I'm angry because of her being inconsiderate on my time as I took the afternoon off from work and I had jobs I had to do that are about a 4 hour round trip I will have to do tomorrow on top of the other stuff I have to do. It would have been much easier if I did the jobs today and save some PTO as well.
I told her we could have a late lunch after she has her procedure done but she said she was too tired because she didn't get any sleep due to the pain and she had to get back to work and finish end of month stuff.
She said she was looking forward to the lunch. Whatever. I told her lunch didn't have to be during the week and she said this weekend she couldn't do it because it was Independence Day weekend. I responded I wasn't talking about this weekend, but in general terms. She responded "I told you yes, we will do lunch."
I went to the restaurant we were supposed to go to anyway. The service was good and the food probably was good but I had lost my appetite and just picked at my plate. I don't think I will be able to get away from work for the next 10 days, so it will be over two months since I will have seen my WAW except for the brief 5 minute run in I with her the middle of May.
I asked about her car and she said she didn't know what she was going to do about it. Her car is her problem is all I can say.
M 55 W 52 MR 32 T 34+ D29 BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email) No EA/PA August 23 - DB used against me in every way Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day
