No, I actually think the EA is much worse than a PA. Her EA has been going on for years as far as I can tell. I don't think it got physical, but I could very well be wrong.

Of course my wife is passing it off as not a big deal, adamant that it has not hurt our marriage and is not hurting my sisters marriage, blah, blah...she even went as far as saying it helped our marriage stay together for as long as it has. As you can expect, my response to her was bull****.

M 17 years
3 kids
EA start 2010
ILYBNILWY 1/2014
PA 1/2016
Bomb drop 2/2016
Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016
Living as roommates, EA continues