This seems an excessive amount of judgement for missing calling her son at bedtime. Your standard seems unreasonable.
It's 5 minutes of time daily. Easy. She used to leave us at home from 5-8 every weekday and refuse to spend a second with him. We would go to the park alone for months, and she refused to play with him. She would stay out until 4AM on a Fri or Sat night and be hungover the rest of the weekend and unable to play with him. When she left ALL she said was "S first" over and over. And she can't make 5 minutes for him.
Not excessive in the least.
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.