Lost at the moment

[lfm]

Actually, that's an interesting question. From what I am getting from our conversations, she knows she needs to end the relationship, she recognizes the damage that she is doing and has shown remorse for everything she's done/doing. But with that said, she also recognizes the addiction is so strong and that she's not strong enough to end it. She's tried pulling away from him a couple of times, and then feels the pull/withdrawals of the addiction and ends up letting him back in.

Maybe when we get into the new house and I can establish some new boundaries she'll finally get to the point of truly realizing what her future looks like if she doesn't end things with the OM. And maybe that won't make any difference. I realize I can't make this happen and she needs to figure it out, so just trying to be a patient.