Cop1, hope you're doing okay today. Cadet is dead on here. Do you want to know what happened that night? I'm pretty sure that's a yes. But she is in no state to be truthful right now. She will say anything. My WW still, just 2 days ago, told me that her OM (only EA as far as I know), is just a 'good friend' through this because he's also having marital problems and it's nice to talk about things with someone who knows what's going on.
I just told her I'm glad she's got someone to talk to right now (I'm not currently trying to reconcile anything). Now, if reconciliation ever does come up, I will want to know the details of everything, or it won't happen. But that won't come for a ways down the road.
Originally Posted By: Cop1
I never dreamed it would get to this point. We are now so far gone I feel sad that what we had is no more
I think we all experience this, over, and over, and over. The weird thing is, your WW is probably thinking the same thing, but not through the same lenses that you are. I'm sorry you're having to deal with this. I hope you can choose your path, stay strong, and continue working on that new plan.
