At this point we are almost always together after work, except if we have made dinner plans and or im at the gym.
A typical day is like this, come home from work, have dinner together, she tells me about her day and stuff. We read our son books to sleep. Watch a bit of TV, she goes to sleep. Other nights we go out for dinner and movie together with our son or go to her parents or my parents house.
Although she has asked for MC and says she wants to earn my trust back she has also said on two occasions now she cant stay, as in she wants to leave.
Should i stop having family dinners together? i see it works two ways a) i leave the house for my own dinner or b) ask her to leave the house c) not have dinner at same time.
Apart from dinner should i ensure i have plans or something or play with son and not initiate any convo.
Kinda hard to define where i am at, should i just assume we are in-house separation and act accordingly? I know my IC would advise against this. He would say why am i trying to push her away.
is there any way to detach without pushing her away?
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.
