If I could be with my children when they're poorly I would choose that over going home and napping
Exactly my point.
You expected something from your W and were upset when she didn't meet them. I'm not saying what she did was right. But in my opinion, the only reason you are angry is because you had some level of expectation.
How about this...knowing that your D was with you, what would you think W SHOULD have done if she had "maternal instincts"?
