Working on me and letting it play out

[cbtdad]

Hey betterm! Thanks for stopping by. I've been following your posts and you seem to be doing fantastic. You now know the meaning of detachment! It's a great feeling isn't it?

I am doing great. Continuing to try and better myself everyday. I am really doing a lot of listening. Just listening and not trying to fix things. This is a huge 180 for me. It is actually nice to see W opening up more to me about life.
Now when we get in MC that is still tougher. W does not like to talk or express "feelings and emotions"
She has been like this for a long long time and it definitely stems from childhood. That's why I am taking the approach of working on me right now. Whatever she does right now isn't effecting me. It's nice to be detached.
She will have work to do on herself if this marriage is going to work. That I do know. So I will take the first step and hopefully this will get her taking small steps.
Only time will tell.
For now I am in a good place and really like where things are