So I can't rescue her. She has made it very clear that she thinks she can only be on her own. That she will only be safe on her own.
Then why is she wanting to move back into the home? I know she gives the excuse of missing the kids........but it is only an excuse, as she proved last night.
I think you need to leave her alone and stop all the chit-chatting with her. Stop offering her cake, and start getting a life that does not depend on her involvement or approval.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
