Chapter 3. Let the detachment begin

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Sandi2: You rock. Thanks for your post. Yes, I did Google those terms. I did begin to wonder. Which I may be and which she may be. She would argue that she was codependent/enabler of my poor money management.

I'm still trying to figure out what I was codependent of for her?

Yes, I'm a Mr Fixit. It's funny because one of her main resentments is that I did not protect her from the wolves when I did not take care of her financially.

So Where do I go from here? So I can't rescue her. She has made it very clear that she thinks she can only be on her own. That she will only be safe on her own.

Where do I go? What's the best path?