Thank you Babe, it really is excellent place here. Though I don't post much as I am not very good at putting my feelings in writing, reading other stories is helping me a lot. All so similar. And so many wonderful people posting here! I did not find your story though, there is no link to your previous thread in the one that shows in the list. Are the crisis of your h over now?
Since Job said that if crisis are interrupted before really finished the second time it's much worse, I often wonder whether it will last much longer than if we did not try to work on our marriage 2 years ago. I must say I'm losing hope. It may be that there is too much going on in my life right now and it brings me down. One of my best friends is moving to another country, my boss who was the best boss I ever had left the organisation last month, two weeks ago I caught my cleaning lady stealing my stuff so had to let her go after many years she was with me... I feel like I'm losing everyone this year.
Luckily I'm very busy at work and now that the school is over for my kids I'm trying to come home early so we can spend some quality time together. So, not much time to feel sorry for myself.
But I also have things to be happy about: both kids had great results at school. There was never a problem with them but this year I was a bit worried that the situation with their father and his rather limited involvement in their lives will have negative impact on their results but it seems not to be the case. I'm really happy about that! They are now very excited about our upcoming trip. I do hope it will work out well. Especially if it's the last trip of the 4 of us together. Secretly hoping not. But as I said, losing hope.