Lost at the moment

[Surfer]

I met up with the OM (EA only I believe) took him for a beer (a police officer) and told him I would not have to hit him (he was worried I would) as would have him fired and he would never work for that or any other force again. They went NC immediately. He then made contact again (as he had a problem and needed to talk to someone). I made it very clear that he just had a second chance he did not deserve. I explained really clearly and calmly that he needed to grow a pair and deal with his own problems - my WW is not his W, but he is becoming my problem and I will deal with that problem. They didn't make contact again. Now she has moved out they may again, but as I let her entire family know about it, so she won't. I don't advise doing any of this as it was largely as mistake. It would have been better just to pay her attention and ignore the EA but I am not sure that would have changed her from being a WW. Anyway, I am liking going dark and GAL so all fairly happy ; )