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Now communication was a big problem with M , so do I need to 180 and be involved or engaged as to chitchat or txt she sends?


Let me ask a question, did you dress up like Big Bird and run back in forth in front of Walmart? No? Then, do you think you should do a 180?

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Should I continue to db even when her story of feelings never changing she's sticking too.


Do you have a better plan?

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Is this her way of letting me prove that she's right that I cannot change..


Nope.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!