Originally Posted By: BluWave
In that time, go back and read some of the awesome advice you give other DBers. Hardest to take our own advise, but often it is the most valuable!

-Blu


Blu nailed it! I agree 100%. Your advice to me has been great, and although I haven't always followed it I know it has helped me greatly. I'm starting to lose not just the love for my WW, but respect as well. It's sad. She's so careless and odd now and I don't like it.

Your W opened up to you. THAT IS HUGE!! That is something a loving W does. You're in a great spot man. Take your time!!


Me: 35 W: 32
S: 4
T: 6 M: 4
Physical Separation official: 5/21
Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son

Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.