My homework I have to do is make 5 goals to do just for me. I'm having a hard time coming up with 5 goals. I've got 3 down (start a class, get a tattoo, run the Ravenel Bridge).
Why do all of your goals for you have to be GAL activities?
How about expanding your learning - for example:reading books on successful marriage techniques? What about improving your means of communication? Improving the way you treat people? Investing in your own personal happiness? Make a new friend? Host a gathering? etc, etc.