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You're gonna get a tattoo!? That's on my list of things to do too. I'm uncertain of what I want, something meaningful, something strong, and maybe something humerous too. Please don't get barbed wire, or a tribal tattoo. haha.

Nope, not any of those types. I am really torn on what one to get. I never got one before because I knew what I think is important to me now won't be in the future. I'm thinking of getting a phoenix tattoo. I know it's cliche and all, but I've seen some that really look good and "manly" and it fits how everything will be moving forward.

She responded immediately and suggested a place neither of us had been to and agreed on a time (this Thur at 1 PM).

Wow, that was easy!? You're right in trying to 'navigate the minefield' though. Everytime my W and I meet or cross paths, she has over nine thousand questions she wants to drill me on. I'm not sure how others think about this, but it helps to think, and practice how to respond, and what you want to say (yep, I've done it in the mirror over and over, and still reacted badly to the exact questions I prepared for).

I'm still expecting her to cancel, but I'm going to still go to the restaurant and leave the invitation open as you suggested. I have been doing the same thing you did by rehearsing in front of a mirror for all possible topics (impossible I know)

One of these comments make me say, "I like the way you're thinking, buddy!" ...you know which one it is.

Lastly, I'm sorry to inform you of this, but I'm not currently accepting new clients for counseling. Maybe in the future when things slow down, I'll let you know if anything opens up!

Have a great day! =]

I've been reading your threads. I wouldn't be surprised if MWD doesn't contact you and offer you a job.