Exactly, mysterious aura. Just want to follow through on being more mysterious and less predictable. Not doing it to try and get a reaction out of her per se, but while she is still holding on to her OM in whatever fashion, it's not my responsibility to make her feel secure in our relationship.


Me, WW - Upper 30s
BD - Apr 1 2016
EA - Apr 7 2016 (discovered; ongoing for months; did not confront right away)
Confronted wife about EA - May 17
Wife sent NC email to OM - July 11