hey rotz - my goodness, reading your last post is like holding a mirror up. i've been wondering lately if my H's A had to do with his need to prove he is better that I have given him credit for - I have the same problem of not being amazed and adoring enough.
despite dbing my heart out, i have also figured out that in my case, my H definitely needs to hear ILY from me - this is a 180 for me
