I must admit guilt was the first thing I thought of too. It is sad so look at my W and see a shell of the women I use to know, I looked at her face and there was nothing behind her eyes, almost robotic in nature.
She leaves for her trip to Boston on Friday so will be interested to know what version of my W returns. A part of me is hoping that it be just what she needs to help start seeing clearly.
So much of your focus is on her. DBing is about turning our focus to ourself. Read Sotto's post again. Wise advice you should follow. KyleR, read your own posts. If your W were to read them would she find you more or less attractive than she see's you now. We are what we continually think. Our thoughts drive our actions. What are you doing to be a better KyleR? What are your goals? What are you doing to be the person only a fool would leave?
I continue to follow and post to your thread hoping the advice of so many may aid you in your sitch, but you must choose the path. You must decide what you hope to accomplish.
You and your family continue to be in my prayers.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
