Hi Kyle, it's good that you get to spend some extra time with your D. WRT the comment you made about not doing her a favour....I think it's best to step back from comments like that as I don't think they help 'pave the way.'
I would keep it simple - if you can help, help. If you can't, don't and if she is asking you to do something that is a boundary issue for you, let her know that you won't be able to help because you're busy etc.
JMHO of course and hope you had a nice day with your D
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
