Hi PacLove, I understand the feeling of wanting to try something different. My W's languages would be Quality time and words of Affirmation. First one is a little harder to do and definitely anti DBing right now. My W certainly seems to be attention seeking, I get all sorts of information about what she has done for the kids, almost like, look at me and how well I'm doing as a single mom....
Within DBing, I think it's ok to experiment a little and see what happens. So for me, I will start with an occasional measured words of affirmation and see what transpires. Maybe you can start the same, small, measured and occasional.
