Update Well she finally started acting nice towards me, then really nice. Pretty soon she was cuddling with me. She told me the thing with the OM was never serious abs was over (didn't belive a word of that) last night we made love multiple times. She's now telling me she loves me. Holding my hand all that great stuff. But... all of a sudden she seems to have second thoughts asking questions like "should I have let it run its course?" Asking me for space again stuff like that. I'm pretty sure she chose me when she realized what she will lose, and I'm pretty sure she will ultimately choose me overall. If she goes back to him at all though I don't know if I could take it. My plan is to give her some space tonight and hope she gets over him. I really hope this is the right choice.
