Hey rich4j,

I hope so. I want better.

Soccer She was there and did not say hi, was quiet the whole time. I did not talk to her, my focus was on my boys, talked to them non stop.

These trips for her, she needs to figure it out, we have an agreement that covers if she was to take the kids with her, but not to leave them with me. If I could take them I would, I do have plans. It would inconvenience me to look after them when its her day.

This is life now, she cant just go on her own giving up her responsibility to look after the kids. I an sure she will figure it out that she will have to take the kids with her for it to work. I cant say no to that.

That was not her first choice because she is hoping that i would look after them so she can live the single girl dream.

She needs to wake up she has kids, she has responsibility of looking after them. This just blows my mind that she is changing the annual family trip into a kids less party weekend.

Ok enough talk of this, I said no I have plans that is that. If she chooses to hate me for it, that is her choice and it has nothing to do with me.

Soccer was over and i said my good byes to the boys and then to her.

Next...


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016