Out of in house S - On My Own (11)

[rich4j]

Vise

Good for you.....I hope you are on your way to better things

I think setting the boundries on the vacation is good. I would only say to think about this in terms of if you will need her to bend for you in the future

I have been going thru the same thing (inhouse) soon to be similar to you with separate places. I have bent a little bit on my schedule to help cuz she will have to for me. But she has bullied me in the past and guilted me into things (one of the issues with our relationship) and I won't let her do that either

There needs to be an agreement of if I do this for you, you need to reciprocate.

Think about it if you are going to need that help and only in the realm of your kids and family vs her.