Thank you Mozza I agree with everything you said, I don't think he could ever remain faithful.
He told me he is moving back. He said it wasn't going to work out through here and he was missing his old life.
We spoke a bit about our split and he said he thought I was ok with everything as I was so friendly and upbeat when he came round. It's true I did try to be cheerful but I find it hard to believe he thought I was fine with the break up.
He said he was sorry for what happened between us recently and felt guilty. He said he hopes I meet someone who will make me happy as he feels so much for me. He had tears in his eyes.
He also said he hopes we can remain friends and he would still like to do any jobs round the house. I asked what OW would think about that and he hesitated then said something like she would understand.
I feel stronger today, a little foolish but I still don't regret what happened. It's something that felt so right at the time and quite a nice memory to be parting with strange as that sounds.
I don't know if I can be his friend it might be easier to not be in when he visits which I was doing before.
Thanks again for your wisdom x
Me - 44 Husband - 47 D20, S18 BD - Aug 2013 Moved out - Jan 2014 OW discovered Jan 2014