Anytime an affair continues, and especially after confrontation from the WW's husband.......she is not putting any children before herself.
What and who your W once was, is not what and who she is presently. In your mind, you still see her the way you want her to be.
I'm not saying she has stopped loving her children. I'm saying women change when they get involved with another man. When waywardness takes over, they are no longer the girl you married.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
