I wish I had gotten to this site back in october last year and your approaches would definitely have been what I followed and DB'd I think would have been much more effective
Unfortunately I am doing the right thing which seems to be a theme with some of us nice guys and doing what is right most importantly for my daughter and keeping her in the house with my STBX If she had any spine and was a decent person she would have stepped up and admitted everything and left
I am the one leaving but will do it wiht head held high and a big F U as I head out the door
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....