Blu, I am following your thread but it's a little painful so I don't comment... My H is currently living with OW in what was our home and I don't think we'll get back together. Or that it would even be healthy for me.
But the hope and dreams are there. H and I reconciled twice but he wasn't willing to do the work (according to our MC). I wish you the best of luck.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17