Just wanted to say Hi, Rottz, from one of your sister crazy ladies! LOL You have so many positives going on, I'm glad to see you focusing on them! as some one else said, here, I'm kinda envious! I need to get back to posting my positives each day....it does help in staying upbeat and focused, doesnt it.
Quote: I am trying very hard to stay up and have high PMA. I'm doing this for all you guys, so come on, join me! I don't want to be the only one. El YAY! Let's go get 'em! YAY!
I can feel some of that sparkly glittery PMA rubbing off on me!! Thanks!
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
Well, Rottzilla, if I had your answer I'd probably have mine too. My h and I spend lots of time together, are affectionate and have fun together, ML often, etc, etc, etc (he doesn't even have the kissing/holding hands issues yours does) yet he's still living at his parents and hasn't used the "L" word in any context.
I guess we just have to be PATIENT (yes, I know there's that word you hate again) and keep doing what we're doing. I suppose maybe your h doesn't want to say ILY until he's absolutely, 100% sure that he does love you and his feelings won't disappear again?
Yes, Deb. Focusing on the positives is GREAT! I think when you focus on the positives and discard the rest as garbage, your PMA is up and then you portray a happier person. That happy person is attractive and fun, and that makes spouse come around more often. Less likely to be hesitant around us, more likely to have fun. As the fun days and memories increase, spouse comes out of their protective shell more, and open more to us.
rottzilla I just thought I would stop by to see how you were doing. From what I have seen you are doing great and now I am smiling. Thanks for the PMA boost.
Thanks!
Myrrh 