That makes sense. There isn't much I can do boundary wise short of divorce. I would however be able to address it? I was thinking something like: "I was patient with you when you thought I was being unfaithful. Now I am asking you for that same patience with me. You said you were done with both dude's and I believe you, however when I saw you put your sexy underwear on for the cookout (she left them on the toilet and I had to go and saw them, no snooping on my part) I began to have some doubts. If you are still interested in having a relationship outside the marriage that's fine. I will not however pay for the storage or the car insurance (I offered because I would have to pay like $750 per month in child support, but if I do it this way it works out to $500). Not because I am trying to hurt you financially but because I refuse to have any part in a Marriage that has more than two people."
