Sandi2, you're absolutely correct in that my wife has little to no concern about me. It is all about her, but I do believe she puts our kids and even my sisters kids above herself. She said that she sees me purposely hurting the kids if I were to tell my sister. FYI, we have only had this conversation once...
I do want to clarify that I am by no means not having a life over all this. I play sports and stay in excellent shapexample and I'm juggling a million projects and repairs on our house, a rental house, and two cars after a massive hail storm hit. The problem I see with this is that me doing my own thing (projects) is one of my wife's long standing complaints, so it may seem like more of the same to her. I've tried to drive the point that Ive always gone out of my way to keep things running by asking my wife to handle some of the projects...of which she could not even get started on by herself.
M 17 years 3 kids EA start 2010 ILYBNILWY 1/2014 PA 1/2016 Bomb drop 2/2016 Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016 Living as roommates, EA continues
