I really appreciate the encouragement biz. I am going to try and set a boundary, although this close to physical separation might not be very prudent. I want to tell my W that I refuse to be in an open M. I don't know how to end the boundary though. Do I give an ultimatum? I already caught her talking to 2 other dudes, she cried and apologized, although she still doesn't want to work on the M. I found an unopened box of condoms in anew envelope in her drawer and don't know how to address that either. I already forgave her for the two dude's, so I haven't brought it up, but I think I need to say something about the condoms. Thoughts?
