Journaling: I went to back-to-back martial arts classes tonight so got home fairly late. WW had decided to discontinue the martial arts classes so she was doing her own thing.

I got home and started cooking my supper... she offered "oh, you should have let me know and I would have started it for you". I said something like "that's ok I have time" and she left the room in a huff saying "oh I guess another of my punishments for having an affair is not being able to do nice things for you anymore". She was walking away so I didn't bother to respond.

Later in bed as we were both falling asleep she offered to turn on the fan if I wanted. I replied in a pleasant voice 'whatever you want' and she muttered to herself. Ended up in a sort of ridiculous stalemate where I think we both wanted the fan on but neither wanted to budge. She ended up falling asleep (I think) and I left to go for a drive and listen to music.

Tomorrow I have a dance lesson and then am going to the gym so will be another late return home.


Me, WW - Upper 30s
BD - Apr 1 2016
EA - Apr 7 2016 (discovered; ongoing for months; did not confront right away)
Confronted wife about EA - May 17
Wife sent NC email to OM - July 11