This says a lot. It is your w and bil that are hurting the relationships in the family, not you. If my brother knew that his W was having an EA with my H I would hope that he would tell me.
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so he would end everything
WHAT???? If she was really worried about any of this she would end it. You really need to stop letting her control this situation and stop rationalizing any of what she is saying.
I get you don't want a D, I know I have walked on eggshells to not upset H but this is at a whole new level. Trust me, living the way you are living is not going to make you happy. Ultimately it is your decision on how to handle the A, but the truth always comes out and eventually the family will be hurt regardless.
Tough situation. Take how to handle the EA out of the picture and you still need focus on you and GAL.
Me-44 (45) H- 50 (51) M-'96
S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)
BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas) home Oct(sep rooms) (EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed) insists wants D through July 2015 no more talk of D since
