WOW - that's lots going on. Once you are in separate houses going dark gets easier. Yes, a real man fights for his family. It does not matter if there were bumps behind you. Keep fighting - but slowly, quietly, strongly, etc.
M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017