Coconut I'm not gonna say too much because I know Sandi will be along to give much better advice than I can.
But I will say that it has been a very short time for you to be making demands like that. I understand the frustration and I was totally there a long time ago.
Just don't make any long term decisions about your marriage based on your short term feelings. I think you need to just listen a lot in MC tomorrow. just my opinion


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it