From what i read on the forums so far, they say to focus on you. To pretend "what-if" she is moving out, how are you going to get your life in order.
I'd avoid initiating any R talk at all cost. In my limited experience it has set me back each time.
Duct tape and move forward. Do you, make you happy.
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.