... I would put my sister before my W every time in your scenario.
I would agree with this every day and twice on Sundays. It's a no brainer in IMO.
M 55 W 52 MR 32 T 34+ D29 BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email) No EA/PA August 23 - DB used against me in every way Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day