Awkward situation

[Tate]

I fully understand what you're saying, Sandi2. What I'm not sure about is the fact that my wife wanted a divorce and has prepared herself for one. As she put it, she expects me to want a divorce sooner or later given our circumstances.

I believe that a similar situation is layedoing out in DB...where you can state an ultimatum, but you'd better be prepared to follow through with it. I'm not sure that I am.

As far as the morals of the situation...that's exactly what is eating at me. I told my wife that my sister has the right to know. This is what scared her into offering to let my BIL know that I know what's been going on so he would end everything. She offered this to save my kid's relationships...and supposedly my sisters family. If it wasnt my wife involved with my BIL, I would lethink my sister know in a heartbeat.