Chapter 3. Let the detachment begin

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SH:

Thanks for your post - and thank you for saying what I've been feeling. I'm fixing me she is not fixing her!!!

I spend lots of time in prayer and meditation can be an extension of that. A++ suggestion. That is a natural evolution for me.

Everyday I ask God to heal me of my addiction/obsession.

Most of my faith believe that being "still" is an important way of seeing and being with God. I guess it is now time for me to learn to be still.

Service to others is something I do naturally. I used to do lots of volunteer work. I have elderly parents and a sister who is a widow - who always needs something. Perhaps it's time to step up that game.

I've been trying to be humble and talk less. I'm not sure what effect it is having. I know for me it makes me crave companionship even more. I'm hoping that be leaving "space" my children and maybe W will fill that space an perhaps find their voice.