I just found a nice quote of yours on Nitaf's thread, and it hits the spot for me right now.
Quote: Believe half of what you see and none of what you hear.
It's been said many times on this BB. That's because it's wise advice.
My H said he would never love me again, never feel anything but cold for me. Now he has changed his tune.
Don't make a big deal out of it, it will only create friction later when he has to change his mind and make it 'your' (shared) computer. The more you point out as inconsistent, the more work he has to do to save face later.
My H is making a big deal of how inappropriate it would be for him to join D and self in my country of origin for some weeks this summer. Says all my friends would get the wrong idea, speculating about us getting back togther. But he sees no problem in coming to stay here almost every other weekend??? I have said nothing except, it's your decision.
(I made the offer because -
a) he would get to spend time with D b) he loves the country c) I hoped he would see it as an olive branch, and we could spend some nice time together
The original offer was made totally spontaneously and on the spur of the moment, I just felt a wave of love for H )
I wonder if you would cast your eye over my thread and tell me what you think? I seem to have hit some bumps in the road just lately.
Thanks!
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
