I'll keep on the GAL - I just need a little something more.
My thoughts on the little something more would be time, meditation, prayer and service to others.
Bigy, you are very active in so many areas which has been a great thing for you and your progress. You have sought out activities to stay busy, information to learn from and confirmation from those around you that you are fixing you and that she is not fixing her.
Time heals all wounds Meditation is the exercise that strengthens our control over our mind Prayer calls on a higher power to grant us the strength,peace and vision of the path we have been called to follow. Service is a practice that provides us the ability to get outside of ourselves and can aid in the process of detachment because our focus is no longer on ourself and our desires.
These 4 things will move your mind and heart into the place that detachment can happen in. This will create a shift in your higher power.
Time and focused efforts are the little more that will aid you.
This is my 2c for what it is worth.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine