To some degree I want to focus on how to rebuild my marriage...how to get my wife interested in trying to rebuild. She is stonewalled now and believes that she has no desire to have a relationship with me. All she does is talked about the bad things in our marriage...the whole absolute negatives thing.

How do I start to turn the ship around and have her want to work on our relationship? On a separat ed note, I will be traveling out of the country for 2 weeks soon, and I know she has a hard time doing everything while I'm gone.

M 17 years
3 kids
EA start 2010
ILYBNILWY 1/2014
PA 1/2016
Bomb drop 2/2016
Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016
Living as roommates, EA continues