I've read on this forum that the WAW needs a big event to bring her back to reality. Outing her EA with my BIL would absolutely be a huge awakening, but it could very well end our M in an instant.
M 17 years 3 kids EA start 2010 ILYBNILWY 1/2014 PA 1/2016 Bomb drop 2/2016 Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016 Living as roommates, EA continues