My wife is now resenting me for having a full-time job...because I'm not able to take my son as much as I used to. One of the reasons she left is because I didn't have a job.
It's like she will crucify me either way.
Exactly. Thats why you cant base your choices on what will please WW thinking it will change her mind. It doesnt matter what you do, she will find a way to be upset about it.
What is best for you as a father and as a person? Thats usually the best choice.