Well, Sunday was tough without my sweet little boy. Took care of some stuff Sunday, my folks said they're going to come over on July 4th to celebrate my birthday (it's on the 9th, I'd be picking S up from them that day. When I arrive to pick him up, he wants to go HOME IMMEDIATELY! lol)

I didn't initiate any texting with her Sunday, but she sent a lot. Pictures, telling me what they did all afternoon, etc. I basically just said "He's having a great day" about 19 different ways. She called me at 8 to Facetime and say goodnight.

This AM, I was running late. She wanted to Facetime around 7, but I asked if we could 10 minutes later as I was running late. She said "of course." I talked to S, WW didn't say much. She mentioned how well he did at therapy today, and we talked about how much more we want to do as it's his last week. We've come to a handshake agreement that costs will be split 60/40, and that's still really expensive for her.

Trying to decide about boundaries and consequences. Cutting off all non-essential S communication should be related to some major boundary, like maintaining contact w/OP. I've decided ugliness will cut all communication for the rest of that day. I honestly have a hard time thinking of a lot of boundaries. Could anyone note something they do?


Me: 35 W: 32
S: 4
T: 6 M: 4
Physical Separation official: 5/21
Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son

Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.